Really, this goes for men and women of all sizes, not just fat women. First, get those pillows out. This brings me to what I feel is one of the most important parts of enjoying sex as a fat woman: Fat women can have more padding around the vagina on their mons pubis and labia than a thin woman, creating a potentially tricky situation. As a good friend of mine put it: This understanding is not something that happens overnight for most of us.
I highly recommend it. First, get some big, firm pillows. Same with my thighs. Your partner knows, and guess what? Finally, once I figured out that thrusting down on my partner was actually easier because I was fat, a whole new world opened up! Doggie Doggie is a favorite fat sex position because it gives your partner plenty of room to work with, plus the belly is out of the way. You owe it to yourself and your partner to trust that he or she really desires you and to do the best you can to keep that in mind when you find you have a hard time letting go and really being seen during sex. Another issue many women have with being on top, other than the fear of crushing their partner, is mobility. In our culture we have been taught to dread being able to pinch more than an inch and to be disgusted with our muffin tops. I welcome all here with that experience to speak up and contribute if they feel comfortable. This brings me to what I feel is one of the most important parts of enjoying sex as a fat woman: As a good friend of mine put it: What do you enjoy about it? Pillow top mattresses and memory foam tend to not be as easy to have sex on since you sink down into those surfaces instead of bouncing back. Personally, I do not find being on all-fours-doggie as easy as a modified doggie where you place your head lower than your behind, like this: How have you made fat sex work for you? I believe that as long as your partner is GGG , the two of you will be able to experiment in a productive, positive way. Hell, it can take years. Big Big Love- A sex and relationship guide for people of size and those who love them. Sometimes that made me feel more at ease, but mostly it became tedious, distracted me from feeling sexy, and annoyed the crap out of my partner who just wanted to see his hot girlfriend naked. Second, draw your knees up and pull your thighs toward your chest. It works just great and I love it. It took me a long time to realize that my partners were having sex with me in part because of the way my body looks, not in spite of the way my body looks. I would also love to hear from the community here at Persephone. The vagina is inside of the body. This will give your partner optimal thrusting room since this positioning moves your thighs out of the way and really opens the vagina up for deep penetration. Kind of like this.
Video about sex with a chubby woman:
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